
I fell in love with Bangalore in the first week after I landed in Bangalore. Cool climate, greenery around, innumerable joints, coffe shops, shopping malls and what not. For a foodie like me it was heaven. I have explored almost all the restaurants in Koramangala. But after 10 in the night, roads appeared to be quite eerie, which was not the case in Ahmedabad.
Two weeks back, when I was walking down alone a lane near Koramangala Club, around 8 am in the morning, a bike rider closed down from behind and extended his hands and started groping me, I shrieked out and he passed by.
The bike had a faded number plate and had a silencer perhaps because there was no noise when he rode close to the footpath I was walking on.
Previously, during one of my morning walks, I was advised by a fellow walker about the rogue bike-riders on specially on those long stretches of road like the one intermediate ring road extending between Domlur Dell and Koramangala Signal/Egipura.
My room mate had a similar experience few months back. That was around 10.30 in the night and when she was with a friend, a bike rider came and groped her.
Before coming down to Bangalore, I was advised by my friends from Bangalore that there have been several incidents regarding rogues roaming around the city on bikes.
Advice:
1) Remain alert when you are alone in an empty lane.
2) Don’t be on cell phone when you are alone and walking on roads less populated.
3) Avoid going for walks in places that are less populated.
4) Don’t panic, shout for help.
You are right that there is no place free of violence but we have to see the nature of violence. Why only women are the subject of violence there in Banglore particularly the working women and those who feel comfortable in jeans. It's the result of intolerance towards women freedom out of religious faiths.
I have lived in Ahmedabad, but believe me it was a very safe city. I walked down the roads even at midnight and nobody said anything to me. Similar experiences are shared by women who have lived in Ahmedabad.
Even Mumbai is a cool place.
What I understand is that it has more to do with the city administration and civil society.
I am not ruling out the role of the Government who should be responsible for the law and order of the state.
while i agree with your 4 suggestion given by u 4 women to protect themselves, i think, beta, the most important should be BE BOLD as well
within their minds.
this mentality of EASY TARGETS have to be stopped n u should be the one to initiate. mass must also cooperate/react fast whenever such incident occure.anyway gr8 to bring this on this platform
my good wishes to u n be bold since u r out now from the protactive wall of family.
To be bold is to go a step ahead; it is true most of the times we have the fear of being hurt rather than not being hurt.
Even the strongest mind can wilt under pressure or rise against a mountain of hurdles - such is the magic of human minds.
It’s has got nothing to do with being jeans-clad or salwar kameez-clad or sari-clad being harassed/molesetd/raped.
A woman who was reecntly harassed in Bihar was a salwar kameez-clad woman.
A friend of mine who was well covered from top to bottom and inspite of being with a friend also experienced harassment.
It is the question of the audacity of the criminals whom we try to eavde/avoid and not fight fearing greater physical/psychological damages.
It actually points out to a system of weak law and order system and not-so-sensitive civil society.
Above all it’s the fear which makes us a victim and our fear is the strength of the harasser/rapist/murderer.
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You are right that there is no place free of violence but we have to see the nature of violence. Why only women are the subject of violence there in Banglore particularly the working women and those who feel comfortable in jeans. It's the result of intolerance towards women freedom out of religious faiths.
while i agree with your 4 suggestion given by u 4 women to protect themselves, i think, beta, the most important should be BE BOLD as well
within their minds.
this mentality of EASY TARGETS have to be stopped n u should be the one to initiate. mass must also cooperate/react fast whenever such incident occure.anyway gr8 to bring this on this platform
my good wishes to u n be bold since u r out now from the protactive wall of family.
To be bold is to go a step ahead; it is true most of the times we have the fear of being hurt rather than not being hurt.
Even the strongest mind can wilt under pressure or rise against a mountain of hurdles - such is the magic of human minds.
It’s has got nothing to do with being jeans-clad or salwar kameez-clad or sari-clad being harassed/molesetd/raped.
A woman who was reecntly harassed in Bihar was a salwar kameez-clad woman.
A friend of mine who was well covered from top to bottom and inspite of being with a friend also experienced harassment.
It is the question of the audacity of the criminals whom we try to eavde/avoid and not fight fearing greater physical/psychological damages.
It actually points out to a system of weak law and order system and not-so-sensitive civil society.
Above all it’s the fear which makes us a victim and our fear is the strength of the harasser/rapist/murderer.
I have lived in Ahmedabad, but believe me it was a very safe city. I walked down the roads even at midnight and nobody said anything to me. Similar experiences are shared by women who have lived in Ahmedabad.
Even Mumbai is a cool place.
What I understand is that it has more to do with the city administration and civil society.
I am not ruling out the role of the Government who should be responsible for the law and order of the state.
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